
John Van Deventer
1956-05-21 2025-08-22John was a friend to all - kind, generous, and a true gentleman. Known as everybody's "go-to-guy", he was always the first to lend a helping hand. His selflessness, humor, and giving spirit touched countless lives.
John, 69, was born in Fort Worth, Texas, and grew up in Arlington, Texas. He graduated from Arlington High School in 1974 and from the University of Texas of Arlington in 1978. Following graduation, John proudly served in the United States Navy from 1978 to 1986, rising to the rank of Lieutenant Commander. During his service, he flew attack A-7 jets abord the USS Midway, a role that showcased his skill, courage, and devotion to country.
After his military career, John continued to soar as a Captain with American Airlines, where he flew the MD-80, 737, 757, and 767 for 34 years before retiring. During his time at American, John also served as Assistant Chief Pilot at DFW, Check Airman, and Accident Investigator. He later shared his knowledge as a 737-simulator instructor for FlightSafety. John was a proud member of the Grey Eagles and Flight 23, Order of Daedalians, organizations that reflected his lifelong passion for aviation.
Even in retirement, John remained deeply connected to others – volunteering as a handyman at Solstice Senior Living Center, scheduling countless lunches with friends, and always making time for family and loved ones.
John had many passions, He was an avid woodworker who even built his own kayak, which he loved taking out on Lake Grapevine. He enjoyed backyard cookouts, sharing laughter with loved ones, and treating everyone to his infamous pancakes. A jack of all trades, John could fix or build anything, and he always used that gift to help others.
Our grief is great at the loss of our brother, but our pride and love are even greater. John’s accomplishments, generosity, and warmth will forever remain in our hearts. To us, he was more than a father, brother, Poppa or Uncle – he was our safe place, our constant source of strength, and the person who made us feel secure in this world.
John’s presence will be deeply missed, but his spirit will live on in the many lives he touched.
John’s greatest joy came from his family. He is lovingly remembered by his son, Joseph Van Deventer and wife Elisha, and his cherished grandchildren, Jack and Joselyn, who brought endless pride and happiness to his life. He was a devoted father to his daughter, Amy, and a beloved brother to Pat and wife Susie, and Ann, who shared an especially close bond with John. He was also a caring brother-in-law to Cindy. John was a treasured uncle to his nieces, Holly and husband Ati, Jamie and husband Taylor, and Maci; and to his nephews, Mark and wife Elisabeth, and Will. John also found great happiness with his girlfriend, Sheryl, whose love and companionship meant so much to him. Each of them held a special place in his heart. He is preceded in death by his loving parents, Willa and George; his brother, George Jr.; as well as many grandparents, aunts, and uncles. He is now reunited with them in peace.
Funeral Service and Interment:
Wednesday, September 17 - 2:00 pm
St. Andrew Methodist Church
5801 W. Plano Parkway - Plano
Celebration of Life:
Thursday, September 18 - 5:00 pm
The Londoner Pub
5120 State Hwy 121 - Colleyville
John, the pilot's pilot, was the pilot every passenger wanted when they got on an airplane. He was always the consummate professional; safe, on-time, and friendly toward everyone. He even bought a planeful of passengers and crew pizza in Abilene because of delayed diversion. I don't believe AA ever reimbursed him. He didn't care. People needed to be taken care of.
I met John nearly 40 years ago running through the neighborhood we lived in. Our kids grew up together. He became my best friend over the next few years.
John was the best example of a Christian, though he once told me he was a "non-practicing" Christian. He would do anything for anyone. Need a ride, John would drive. Need help fixing something, John would be there. He would volunteer at the assisted living facility across the street from his neighborhood because the handyman was overwhelmed with work and the residents shouldn't have to wait to get things fixed.
I love John and will miss him dearly.